Teaching the First Five Commands That Matter

Sit, stay, come, down, leave it. Master these and you've covered 90% of daily life.

The Wag & Whisk Team Jun 10, 2026 1 min read
Teaching the First Five Commands That Matter
Training & Behavior

Five well-trained cues do more than fifty half-trained ones. Pick these, drill them in short sessions, and build everything else from there.

The five

  • Sit — your default "wait a moment" cue
  • Stay — duration and distance, built slowly
  • Come — the recall that brings them back from anywhere
  • Down — for longer settles
  • Leave it — for the dropped chicken bone moment

Three-minute sessions, three times a day

Pets learn faster in short, focused bursts than long marathons. End every session before they get bored.

Building each cue in stages

Teach the behaviour first in a quiet room with no distractions, then add duration ("stay" for longer), then distance (you stepping further away), and only then distraction (other people, noise, other dogs). Skipping straight to a busy park is the most common reason a "known" cue seems to vanish outside the house — the dog never actually practised it at that difficulty level.

What to do when a cue stalls

If your dog stops responding somewhere they used to, don't repeat the word louder — go back a stage. Lower the distraction, shorten the distance, or raise the treat value, then rebuild up again. It's rarely stubbornness; it's usually a jump in difficulty that happened too fast.

Use treats your pet actually loves — boring food gets boring obedience.